So, I'm all for keeping secrets. I understand that there are reasons why people should have secrets. Heck, I have a pretty big one myself. What I don't understand is when to tell secrets, and when not to.
Don't get me wrong - -if someone says "you're sworn to secrecy, don't tell anyone", I won't! But what about those things that people tell you, and you think they probably intented for you to keep it a secret, but you don't. Then what happens?
Like, say you know one friend likes a friend who likes them back. You'd think they'd look really cute together, so you tell them. But, you're pretty sure that they both wanted the fact that they like each other to remain a secret. Is it still bad that you told them, even if they end up happy together?
And what if you have no idea if somethings supposed to be a secret, and so you tell one of the people that the things about, but then the person who told you the secret gets mad?
Something to think about. Well, that's My Crazy Life.
Life is crazy and secrets are such a confusing thing. there are secrets meant to be kept but if you feel you are doing the right thing than you cant blame yourself if things dont end how you thing they will. and if you end losing a friend because the secret wasnt kept, then they werent meant to be your friend. so be happy and hope for the best
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